Author: oceansidecounsellingservices

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/what-mentally-strong-people-dont-do/201711/10-reasons-teens-have-so-much-anxiety-today

How are we supporting our kids in building their resilience or ‘mental muscle?’  It seems that increased opportunities for real life connection rather than through social media is a strong start.  Some steps to consider:  reduce amount of family time on devices, support emotional development through discussion and skill building in navigating disappointment and sadness, and increased time having fun outdoors.  A family meeting to discuss these steps encourages a whole team approach rather than focussing solely on the teen.  If connection with counselling supports is needed, working with the whole family is most beneficial to support improved communication, coping strategies, and wellbeing for all.

How can you get comfortable with negative emotion?  Identify the emotion, get clear on the cause, sit with it….yes really sit with it, and then consider what you need.  Is it self-care and a quiet moment, an opportunity to address a situation that no longer serves you, or simply a difficulty moment which will soon pass?  Authentic recognition that we all experience negative emotions creates space to support ourselves and each other in wearing authenticity as a badge.

Why we should say no to positivity — and yes to our negative emotions

Small steps towards big progress.

1.  Do it badly.
2. Forgive yourself for any mistakes.
3. Have a purpose and meaning in your life.

Everyone experiences low mood, but if you or someone in your family is experiencing symptoms for two weeks or longer, check in with a professional to discuss therapeutic treatment options within a holistic approach.  These options may include lifestyle changes, diet, exercise, homeopathic treatment, therapy, and medication.  Reach out to have the conversation and connect to receive support – your outlook CAN improve.

Our community has experienced a tragic loss this week.  Whether we knew the young man personally or not, the family’s pain resonates and connects to our own personal experience with grief and loss.  We are challenged to attempt to explain the inexplicable impact of a sudden tragedy to our young people within our cultural limitations of not being very comfortable in addressing the topic of death.  How can we become ‘better’ in our support and communication with those who are grieving while acknowledging this is a universal experience?

Here is an article that offers some helpful tips when you may struggle with what to do or say when supporting friends and loved ones.

https://www.helpguide.org/articles/grief/helping-someone-who-is-grieving.htm